My mother was Catholic and my father Protestant. They were married in my mother's living room
as no mixed marriage could be held in the church, of course.
I was raised Catholic but it was a very low key, private kind of
religion. My mother and I went to mass
and occasional confession and communion and abstained from meat on Fridays, but
there were no outward trappings -- no family rosaries, no going to novenas, no
holy pictures in the home.
My mother had a small crucifix in her bedroom and I had a pretty little
blue and white della robia plaque of the infant Jesus in swaddling clothes in
my room.
My mother and father preferred to send me to public rather than
parochial school and church instruction came at Sunday School held after the nine
o'clock children's mass for all of us "publics" who were slightly
beyond the pale.
When I moved to Washington,
I met a number of girls who became friends, three of whom were going to attend
a Catholic girl's high school in the fall.
I suddenly had to go.
The following summer my mother and I (she, still slightly skeptical)
went down to register me with the good nuns.
Paper work done, we went to get my uniform for the next two years... a
navy blue jumper, two short sleeved white blouses with Peter Pan collars, a
navy blue sweater, a small blue and gold bar pin with SCA for St. Cecilia's
Academy to wear at the collar and several pairs of tan knee socks to wear with
either loafers or saddle shoes (these last to be kept clean, please.)
St. Cecilia's was a small school:
one class for each year of high school, a combination gym/lunch room/auditorium,
a small home economics room, typing room, English classroom, bathrooms and
small front office for the principal.
Next door was a building where the nuns lived where one could buy a hot
lunch, plain but nourishing, and where for one semester I took piano lessons
from Sister Victoria who really rapped my knuckles (gently) when I made
mistakes.
The first day of school Joan, Nacen (?) Joyce and I took the bus, transferred
to the street car at Barney Circle
and went down Pennsylvania Avenue,
getting off at Sixth Street. We walked over one block to East Capitol and
the school.
They were all freshmen and I went alone to the room full of strange
sophomores. Sister Clotilde, brisk,
middle aged and kindly, entered our room.
We stood up, said "Good morning, Sister" and the day
began.
There were prayers and announcements.
I was introduced and just before we dispersed to our various classes,
Sister said drily: "I found out over the summer that there is something that will remove nail
polish, so I don't want to see any of that bright red stuff. Also no dark lipstick. Your mothers wouldn't be seen like
that."
My first class that first year was English. We had a lay teacher for that. She was a nice young woman who had a great
crush on Leslie Howard. When he was
killed late in the war, she was really distraught.
From English I went back to Sister Clotilde for geometry (in the slower
class.) I had barely squeaked through
algebra the year before to my engineer father's despair but, with Sister's help
and doing my homework, I mastered acute angles and isosceles triangles.
I managed to pass with a "C."
After geometry was Religion, also with Sister Clotilde. The theme that year was mostly church history
all of which I have forgotten. I envied
the two Lutheran girls who attended school but who were excused from religion
class.
We had lunch and then biology with Sister Grace Marie. I can still smell the earthworm in its
formaldehyde. Lastly, there was Latin
with Sister Clotilde again. I remember
Latin especially because in my junior year there were only four of us in
class...four of us and Cicero with his long wordy orations. The class was our own particular hell...no
hiding in the back of the room, no waiting for eight other people before one
was called on, no excuses like the dog ate my homework. We had to do it. After junior year, I studied no more
Latin. French that year with Sister
Samuel was a breeze in comparison.
The girls were a friendly lot.
Mostly they were from other parts of Washington and we southeasterners were in
the minority. We did, however, all have
smarts enough to go to the bathroom after classes were over, roll down our
socks, hike up the uniform skirts, plaster on all that dark red lipstick Sister
Clotilde hated and venture forth looking "sharp" to the nearest
Little Tavern for a sack of hamburgers, a strawberry shake and forbidden
cigarettes.
The nuns were pretty unflappable.
They had probably seen it all.
Once Marcella Clancy, who arrived without breakfast, started to faint at
morning prayers and Sister Clotilde was at her side in a trice, catching her
before she fell and putting her head down.
We stood like lumps, no help at all.
Sister, one of eleven children and with a dry sense of humor, loved us
all.
Another time at lunch in the gym/auditorium/cafeteria, someone found a
baby mouse pickled forever in her bottle of coke. Sister Agnes, small, aristocratic and
authoritarian with pince-nez on her nose, was called and strode briskly in and
stopped the rising hysteria. The local
bottling company, by the way, generously replaced the mouse-tainted coke bottle
with another free case of coke. No
lawsuits in those days.
After junior year when I had worked on the school paper and enjoyed it,
I returned to Anacostia where I could take journalism classes not offered at
St. Cecilia's. For good grades, I should
have stayed where I was!
I lost track of most of my classmates, running across one or two in
later years. Four or five years after my
sojourn there, I ran into Sister Clotilde and a companion waiting for a
streetcar on Connecticut Avenue. She recognized me and immediately introduced
me correctly to her fellow nun. I marveled
at her memory.
St. Cecilia's has merged with another parochial high school in these
years of hard times. I don't know what
it is called now; but I did hear a few years ago that Sister Clotilde was alive
and well at 90. Bless her.
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